The Laws of Polarity and Rhythm are the greatest reminders that everything is an illusion, and that we you master how to transcend and transmute energy using these Universal Laws, you will achieve harmony and the manifestation of your desired reality. 


The fourth universal law, the Law of Polarity, states that all that are manifested in the Physical Reality have two sides, two aspects, two poles, and has “opposites.” 

For example: happy and sad, night and day, left and right, up and down, etc. Men have tried to explain this phenomenon by a bunch of sayings:

 “There are two sides to every story,” 

“The coin has two sides,” etc.

We have been conditioned to think that the difference in the things that I mentioned above are actual “opposites” when, in fact, they are not. 

According to the Law of Polarity, they are not opposites but are actually the same thing that varies only in the degree of consciousness or vibrational frequency.

Going back to the Physical, Mental, and Spiritual Planes, we established that these planes belong to One Plane of Life Manifestation. We may think that the Physical Plane is the opposite of Mental and Spiritual Planes, but actually, they are the same belonging to One Plane. 

What you create in the Mental Plane will be the same thing that will manifest in the Physical Plane. In fact, the creation of your desire happens in all planes at the same time, simultaneously — there’s just the difference in the density and the speed of energy in each of the planes because of the difference in their vibrational frequencies.

The concepts of heat and cold illustrate the Law of Polarity very well. They are the same but vary only in degrees. When you look at the thermometer, for example, you notice that it shows many degrees, the lowest being the coldest, and the highest being the hottest; but there are also temperatures in between like “warm,” “warmer,” “cold,” “colder,” etc.

When you talk about East and West, you can go from East to West when you move westward. In between, there are other directions like Southwest, Northeast, etc. This means there’s no absolute standard. All vary in degrees. All are ever-changing in states. All are a matter of the difference in consciousness or vibrations.

Light and darkness are the same with many degrees in between, like afternoon, dusk, and dawn. 

The musical scale is the same as well, with many notes in between the lowest and the highest notes. 

Large and small are relative, just like noisy and quiet. Hard and soft, sharp and dull, positive and negative are all the same thing that vary only in vibration frequencies.


When you say that you love your partner profoundly and then feel and demonstrate that profound love, you operate at the higher scale of consciousness. When you say that you love your loved one but don’t trust and are angry at them, you operate at the lower scale of consciousness of the same thing. 

These two states are not independent of each other but belong to the same pole. 

Your loved one "not with you now" belongs to the same pole as “in a relationship with them.” Your loved one ”upset with you” belongs to the same pole as your loved one “madly in love with you”. Your loved one who doesn’t want to be with you belongs to the same pole as your loved one who wants to be with you so badly.

It’s just that these scenarios vary in their vibrational frequencies. If you want your negative experiences to go away, you must direct your thoughts to the opposite pole of that experience. You can do this by when you imagine the opposite of what you don't want and when you give it high vibrations --  meaning when you are relaxed about your situation and when you feel love, joy, and peace for all. 

You can choose to have your loved one back when you focus on the polar opposite of what you experience right now, that is, when you change your mental state about being with them. Instead of focusing on the low-frequency version of your desire, focus on the high-frequency version. Then, give your loved one Unconditional Love, which is the most powerful vibrational frequency of creation.

Given that there are so many degrees of manifestations, your desire can also manifest in different degrees. This means that you can get your loved one back in many ways, and it all depends on your degree of consciousness and vibrational frequency when you manifest them. 

Here are the different degrees of "getting your loved one back": 

They can stop their hate for you, unblock you, apologize to you, be friends with you, be best friends with you, hang out with you, profess their love for you, get back together with you, live with you, propose to you, or spend the rest of their life with you. These are all different versions of "getting them back," and the version that you will get depends on your vibrational frequency as you focus on your "imaginal act" in the Mental Plane.

When being blocked on social media has deeply affected you, focus on being unblocked. Imagine them send you an invite or a friend request out of nowhere. Imagine them say sorry for blocking you. Imagine yourself okay with it and not ask for reasons. Imagine the two of you together again.

If you are sad because you have no contact with your loved one, focus on the polar opposite of this undesirable event in your Physical Reality. Imagine a phone call or an email from them out of nowhere. Be happy and excited about the idea that your loved one reached out to your first! 

When you understand and apply the Law of Polarity, you will realize that no situation is permanent. This means that you can turn things around and get your loved one back IF YOU CHOOSE TO. I say “if you choose to” because this takes a deliberate application of the concepts that you learned so far. You can’t just know these concepts and, voila! Your desire appears in front of you! It doesn't work like that.

You can “transmute” or change your mental state into another, thanks to the light density of energy in the Mental Plane -- you can manipulate it so, and at any time you want.

Through your willpower (or mental and emotional discipline), you can always choose to focus on the positive and higher levels of your consciousness. If you fall into negative thoughts, you already know how to negate them: just remove your focus on the negative and direct your attention to the positive version.

When you change or transmute the energy of your desire, make sure that you do it in the Mental Plane. All your creations must happen here — there is no other way, and there is no other place. It is only in the Mental Plane that you can direct your consciousness into its highest state. It is only in the Mental Plane can you accomplish your goal. 

Imagine if you do this in the Physical Plane: yes, you can change the loudness, highness, sharpness of your creation when you use words, actions, and physical force, but this takes so much time and effort, and you will have to deal with some forms of resistance from your loved one. You will be prone to rejection. 

In addition, you can also use the Law of Polarity to influence your loved one. 

You can induce ideas in your loved one’s mind when you think of a particular idea and then see the image of them in your mind's eye. For example, imagine your loved one dial the phone and excited to call you. Do this again and again, and they will!

You can communicate the “polar opposite” of your current reality into their minds. So, if your current reality is you’re not together, you can “induce” the idea of togetherness in your loved one’s mind. Imagine they realize that they're in love with you, after all. You can even "inject" specific statements into their minds, like, "I realized I am in-love with ____."

If you want to change your situation and influence your loved one in the Mental Plane, direct your thoughts into the highest state or vibrational frequency of your desires. When you are in that state already, transfer the idea to your loved one’s mind. And because you operate under the same mind under the principle of Divine Oneness, the result is that the person will start to focus on the highest state of your desire (in this case, a relationship with you) as well. 

The more you practice, the more your loved one will realize that they want a brand new relationship with you. Eventually, they will act on this realization. 

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