As part of the universal Law of Mentalism, we now come to the different aspects of your mind: the Subconscious Mind, Conscious Mind, Universal Mind, and Superconscious Mind.
The first level of your mind is the Subconscious Mind, it is that aspect of your mind that is far more powerful than your Conscious Mind because it controls your body functions in auto mode.
As its name infers, your subconscious acts without requiring you to be aware of it most of the time. Your reality right now is shaped by your predominant thoughts and emotions in your Subconscious Mind.
If you always fear that your loved one has found another, your Subconscious Mind will propel you to make that happen. You will always choose to bother your loved one until they reject you totally, you will suspect every person you see your loved one with, and continuously put yourself down by seeing yourself as ugly or worthless. Eventually, your Subconscious Mind will create the reality of your loved one with another.
In other words, this aspect of your mind has limitless powers and can execute all your beliefs and manifest them in your reality.
NO AWARENESS, NO JUDGEMENT
Unlike the Conscious Mind, the Subconscious has no awareness and cannot think on its own. It doesn’t know how to label and judge things and events. It merely accepts anything and everything that’s presented to it, no matter if this is something you really desire or not.
The subconscious does not evaluate the truthfulness of the statement "it would hurt me to see my loved one with another," it will only focus on the hurt and the negativity and manifest that.
In the same sense, your subconscious does not judge the statement "I know my loved one still wants to be back to me," it simply focuses on the happiness and love you feel when you think of that, thus, bring that to your reality.
In Resurrection, Neville Goddard explained:
“The subconscious is not selective; it is impersonal and no respecter of persons. The subconscious is not concerned with the truth or falsity of your feeling. It always accepts as true that which you feel to be true. Because of this quality of the subconscious, there is nothing impossible for man. Whatever the mind of man can conceive and feel as true, the subconscious can and must objectify. Your feelings create the pattern from which your world is fashioned, and a change of feeling is a change of pattern.”
So, if you keep thinking and feeling that it’s impossible to get your loved one back and your Conscious Mind affirms that statement to be true, what happens is that statement eventually gets stored in your Subconscious Mind as a belief.
And since the Subconscious Mind executes whatever is stored in it, what will manifest in your reality is the “impossibility” of getting your loved one back. You act, in auto mode, in ways that will undoubtedly make sure that it's impossible to get your partner back.
If you keep thinking that your loved one has already moved on and your Conscious Mind doesn’t do anything to correct that statement, that thought will eventually get stored in your Subconscious Mind and will manifest in your physical reality. So don’t wonder if your loved one has indeed already moved on.